Frankie’s Juvenile myelomonocytic leukaemia story

The symptoms

Frankie started showing symptoms of leukaemia at around eight months old. Frankie was spiking temperatures on a weekly basis, had night sweats, no energy and developed a purple pin prick type rash on the backs of his legs (this was actually a low platelet rash). I took Frankie to the doctors with these symptoms many times, but I was just told it was “viral” and to continue life as normal.

In December 2016 Frankie had not long turned one, he was still not crawling which rang alarm bells as he appeared to have no energy at all and was sleeping far more than he should at that age. I had noticed the purple pin prick rash had spread to his ears. I made an emergency appointment that morning and was seen at my local GP. The doctor who assessed Frankie said she thought Frankie had meningitis and called 999 for an ambulance, in the meantime the nurse gave Frankie the injection to start off antibiotics for this.

 

Diagnosis and the blood test that saved his life

Arriving to our local hospital Frankie was seen and the doctors said they didn’t think he had meningitis but they will take a blood sample just to be on the safe side. That blood test saved his life. On 23 December 2016, Frankie was diagnosed with a very rare form of leukaemia – JMML which is short for Juvenile myelomonocytic leukaemia. The rest of the family were devastated, heartbroken. It was the worst thing in the world telling our close loved ones that our little baby had cancer. But it brought us all closer together and a lot stronger as a family. We were told the only cure for this type of cancer was to have a bone marrow transplant. We were extremely lucky that Frankie’s older sister Skye was a 10 out of 10 match.

After a few complications, Frankie finally had his transplant 10 May 2017. Frankie recovered amazingly well and is now in complete remission.

Ringing the end of treatment bell

We got to ring the end of treatment bell, not once but twice. The first time was in June 2017 when Frankie was discharged from the bone marrow transplant ward and the second time was in December 2017 when Frankie had his double Hickman line removed. We did not have family with us but we recorded the very special moment and were able to share this moment with everyone. The feeling was very overwhelming, I remember seeing other children ring the bell and longed and wished for that day to come.

What the future looks like for Frankie

Frankie is unlikely to be able to have children of his own due to the strength of the chemotherapy he endured, we were offered before the bone marrow transplant to have a segment of testicle removed from Frankie but we chose not to have this process done as the infection afterwards was quite high so decided against this. Frankie could have complications with puberty but for now this is being closely monitored. Life at present is “normal” for Frankie, he has yearly check-ups at the children’s hospital and a check-up at his local hospital. Frankie may have complications going into puberty but all of that is monitored.

Luckily, Frankie was very little when he went through his illness, as he gets older, he does ask a lot of questions, we explain what happened and tell him; “you had poorly blood and needed to be fixed.” He looks at pictures with no hair and says he looks like grandad. He is very understanding and all of his questions are answered as simply as we can give them.

Health anxiety and panic attacks

Over the last few years since Frankie finished treatment, I have struggled with extreme health anxiety and panic attacks. I had to have a couple of therapy sessions over the years which has helped me massively deal with Frankie’s childhood cancer journey. I am now in a good head space and have tried my hardest to move on from what we have been through.

March 2021

Update: March 2023

Frankie has a couple of check-ups at hospital a year to make sure everything is running smoothly and he continues to remain well. Frankie is in year two at primary school and loves football. From collecting football cards, to playing football in a team, to driving us mad kicking a football against the front door. He is the healthiest he’s been and is everything we hoped for.

He is the healthiest he’s been and is everything we hoped for.

From Children with Cancer UK: March 2023

Frankie and his family kindly agreed to take park in our #Milestone campaign. The #Milestones campaign tells the story of two childhood cancer survivors – Billy and Demi – and their families’ journey through cancer diagnosis, to treatment, remission and every milestone along the way. Their characters were inspired by the real-life stories of Frankie and Rose, and we are incredibly grateful that they and their families have chosen to share these with us.

Frankie’s dad, James said: 

“Watching Frankie receive his first man of the match award – and seeing the smile on his face – is my absolute favourite milestone.”

Update: May 2024

In May 2024 Frankie reached 7 years in remission/post transplant. Frankie is coming to the end of year 3 at primary school and his favourite subject is maths and he is quite the mathematician.

He is still football mad and plays for two teams that are incredibly supportive of him. Since then Frankie has had many opportunities, one being, playing against Arsenal academy. (Which as a Spurs fan, made scoring a goal so much sweeter.)

He still has his struggles from time to time with viruses and infections due to the long-term effects of treatment, and recently spent 6 weeks on the sidelines whilst he recovered. But to sum up, Frankie is thriving in school, at home and especially in football. He is a very happy, healthy 8-year-old boy with the world at his feet.

 

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